Did It Really Ever Happen? v2.0
This is drafted post numero dos about BlogHer. You might not ever even see this. I might end up with BlogHer Post v76.0. I’m having a ton of trouble coming up with a way to tell you about it that makes sense. That conveys my actual feelings.
That tells you about all the idiotic things I did, like light my hair on fire, getting myself told off by a homeless man, allowing another homeless man lead me on a wild goose chase for an ATM (HI Meghan, JUST WALK AWAY), stealing dirt from Guy Kawasaki, getting lost leaving Macy’s (WHO does that?), but that also appropriately explains to you how AWESOME it was.
So, I’ll just start with some of the fun stuff and then I’ll get all sappy (not Mooshy, I’ll get to her in a minute)…
- I set my hair on fire the FIRST night. I leaned over to take a picture with Amy in Ohio, at the bar no less (go figure), and my hair fell into a candle. No harm, no foul. Except for the stench of burnt hair that followed me around for the rest of the night. Now THAT was foul.
- I had many a run in with homeless men. Jennifer and Bri were with me when we got bitched out by one. Apparently we’re worthless whore bitches. Which is really too bad for Bri, because she didn’t know Jennifer or I before Saturday and there she was being lumped in with us. Poor Bri.
- I almost wet myself at dinner at Scala’s on Friday night. Scala’s is a bit of a classy joint and I’m sure that they’re regretting letting a bunch of crazy (semi)-drunk Blogger women into their restaurant. It was after the event at Ruby Skye, which is funny because that was by are the best food we’d had. Anyhoo, it was the usual suspects, Amy, Susan (and a friend of hers), Shannanb, Casey, Jennifer, Jenniferand me. We were having a lovely conversation about Mormon sex (don’t ask) when Casey said something about Hasidic Jew sex (don’t ask, cause I can’t remember the specifics) that just sent me over the edge. I laughed so hard I cried. If you care to see what that looks like, you can go here. I guess you had to be there, but trust me it was FUNNY.
- I “stole” a bag of dirt from Guy Kawasaki’s house. (I plan on giving it away on the Great AllMediocre Giveaway of ‘08) Although I use the term “stole” very loosely, because Guy himself was in full support of my antics and even autographed the bag. I got a lot of strange looks as the dirt was being scooped. Some people just don’t get me.
- It was like college again, when, on the final night, we partied in our room until 2am after the Cheeseburger Party got busted. (Yes, you read that correctly) It was actually kismet because we ran into the world famous Heather & MikeSpohr in the elevator and they joined Headless Mom, Andrea and I back in our room for wine. Eventually Casey & Kim found their way to us too.
- I got to meet other awesome ladies as well. JCK, MerlotMom, Mama Ginger Tree, Lara, Jenny, Debba, Pat, Gudrun, Stefanie, Loralee, Mrs. Flinger, Kellan, OHMommy and Christine.
So now we’ll move onto the other part of BlogHer. Aside from the crazy stories that I’m not tiring of telling, but I’m sure my friends & family are sick of hearing, there was this whole other aspect to it. I’m sure you’ve heard horror stories, and you’ve heard about people who didn’t have a good time, and you’ve heard about people who felt left out, hell, someone even created a freakin’ website about it.
BUT, that was NOT AT ALL the experience I had. Not one time did I feel ostracized, on the outs, unwelcome or any other form of uncomfortable. It sounds stupid, but the entire weekend was one big freakin’ Sisterhood of the Traveling Bloggers for me. I made friends that I have NO DOUBT I will be connected to for YEARS to come. I made connections with people that I’ve “known” online for months. I put faces to names. I put voices to the words I read. I made FRIENDS. I made connections with people. I felt welcomed. It was amazing. And inspiring.
And the part that blew me away?! The part I’m still reeling from?! Is the fact that several people have said that they want to leave Alltop to come back to AllMediocre because they miss the sense of community we provide. The sense of community YOU provide.
So, Thank You, my online friends. And if you weren’t there this year, I’ll look forward to seeing you next year.
Oh! And my photos can be found here.
*And a special thanks to Grandma Pam for keeping my kids entertained so that I could get this damn thing written!*










Maura on 24 Jul 2008 at 3:48 pm #
It really sounds like there were two sides to BlogHer. I’m so glad you were on the better side — sounds like a lot of memories packed into a few short days! And am I still SO kicking myself for not going and meeting you and all of the AMers who were there.
There is absolutely NO comparison between the sense of community on AM and anything else I’ve been a part of in the blog world, let alone Alltop. It’s like apples and moldy oranges. It has been less than a week and I’m really already kind of thinking, “What have I done?”
You’ve created something special, Meghan, and I think the blogroll that keeps growing by leaps and bounds proves that. I don’t imagine you’d consider changing the name from “AllMediocre” to “Worthless Whore Bitches” so that I could have a foot in both worlds, would ya?
Mauras last blog post..Wanna Be on Top?
merlotmom on 24 Jul 2008 at 4:02 pm #
I’m in. When do we make the move???
danielleia on 24 Jul 2008 at 4:04 pm #
getting myself told off by a homeless man
I traveled to NYC for the first time in November and I got yelled at by a server at this restaurant. He said my friends and I didn’t tip enough. I was like… whatever dude. I was very insulted because I have a degree in hospitality management; I know how to tip!!! haha I cannot say I’ve ever stolen dirt or lit myself on fire (I fear getting caught on fire!!!). Hope your hair is Ok, that’s some scary shiznit.
danielleias last blog post..Five Gross Things Around The NHL
Marinka on 24 Jul 2008 at 4:27 pm #
I’m glad that you had such a great time! Don’t ever leave us again, ok?
Marinkas last blog post..Maybe Not
anymommy on 24 Jul 2008 at 5:04 pm #
What Maura said. I’m so glad that you had fun - and I think that is about you and your delightful personality. Guess I don’t know that for sure, I’m just kind of figuring.
mamagingertree on 24 Jul 2008 at 5:05 pm #
It was a fantastic time. My post was by no means meant to sound like I felt left out or didn’t have a good time. Quite the opposite. While I was there I enjoyed it. I introduced myself to one of my favorite “big time” bloggers and she couldn’t have been more gracious, even gave me a hug and recognized my name. But better yet, I discovered some fantastic new bloggers.
The only reason I didn’t get as much out of it is that I didn’t put myself out there. I didn’t attend any parties because I couldn’t drink (yeah that’s right, sometimes I need wine to loosen up).
Next year I’ll host an AllMediocre party in my room.
mamagingertrees last blog post..Setting the Record Straight
Kate on 24 Jul 2008 at 6:22 pm #
Okay - enough with the links! I don’t have time to find more favorite blogs (I do have a day job you know). Seriously though - it’s nice to hear the more realistic side of what Blogher is like. Sounds a lot like high school to me: some people are lucky and get a lot of attention without trying, some people get out there and find their own fun and some people let their insecurities get the best of them and spend the whole time sulking. I’m glad you had a good time and brought back such entertaining stories. But that’s enough - no more links.
Kates last blog post..Parenting Skills at Their Best
Susie on 24 Jul 2008 at 6:33 pm #
I’m in for the Whore thing. Wait. What?
Meghan - you and all mediocre had me at ‘hello.’ A place for the rest of us.
Susies last blog post..I’m a Mojito. I’m Maker’s Mark. I’m a Gin and Tonic.
OHmommy on 24 Jul 2008 at 6:40 pm #
You guys went out to dinner after wards?
I never get to hang with the cool crowd. There is always next year at BlogHer. Cause I am soooooo going.
OHmommys last blog post..From Puppies and Rainbows to Leather Whips
Melody on 24 Jul 2008 at 6:44 pm #
Looks like loads of fun. I like how the photrade link called you Sarah! Oh well, at least they got your website right, they could have called us AllAverage.com! LOL!
Lara on 24 Jul 2008 at 6:50 pm #
you were honestly one of the warmest, friendliest ladies i met at blogher. i’m so glad we’ve become interwebby friends!
Laras last blog post..BlogHer08: Cheers and Jeers
feener on 24 Jul 2008 at 7:21 pm #
i am very curious about this BAD blogher experience ?? the link didn’t work to the website ? what happened. did you know casey before you went or just met her there. i would have been hanging with you ladies for sure.
how happy are you that you did all mediocre ??? you should be proud.
feeners last blog post..cooking and music
moosh in indy. on 24 Jul 2008 at 7:37 pm #
OH THE EMAILS. Um, Casey? Whatcha talking about Jewish Sex for?
I know.
Silliness really.
Love your guts.
heather on 24 Jul 2008 at 7:49 pm #
MEGHAN. If you don’t seriously email me in the next hour about hanging out, you are DEAD TO US!
I miss the world famous Meghan!
heathers last blog post..Rollin’ Rollin’ Rollin’
Headless Mom on 24 Jul 2008 at 8:22 pm #
There is not one word that could make your recount better. You rocked it girl-the whole weekend.
Headless Moms last blog post..An Award, of Sorts
Monique on 24 Jul 2008 at 10:27 pm #
Alright, that settles it! I’m selling the kids, to go to BlogHer next year!!! I think it’s funny that you have had people wanting to go back to AM, I have been seriously considering it these last few days- I’m really not in this for the traffic, I’m in this for the friendship *sob, sob* and AM does have an amazing community feel to it. And, anyway- AM and AT are neck and neck in terms of hits- I have 9 hits from each, LOL. I wish I could be in both places.
Anyway- sounds like Blog Her was hella fun!! And I would have stolen some dirt myself, only I probably would have been removed from the premises because of it. 
JCK on 24 Jul 2008 at 11:16 pm #
I was so lucky to spend time with you and wish we had had more time. You ARE doing fun, great things with All Mediocre and I’m in awe of all that you manage to do… Were you a circus performer in a former life?
JCKs last blog post..Because that is the art of blogging…
jen on 24 Jul 2008 at 11:20 pm #
so, i had a funny thought while reading this…(and it’s probably completely impossible…but it’s late…and the kiddos haven’t been sleeping well…blah blah blah).
what if allmediocre was asked to be a part of alltop???
jens last blog post..what i SHOULD be doing.
Tootsie Farklepants on 24 Jul 2008 at 11:22 pm #
Next year you and I will set out hair on fire together. Pinkie swear.
Tootsie Farklepantss last blog post..When Good Toiletries Go Bad
dysfunctional mom on 25 Jul 2008 at 2:45 am #
I’m so out of the loop as far as blogger Drama and all that stuff, but I think most experiences are what you make them. If someone had an unpleasant experience, in my opinion, chances are they brought it upon themselves.
I’m glad you had a great time!
MadWomanMeg on 25 Jul 2008 at 3:02 am #
Sounds like a great time was had by all. Well…most. I so wish I had been able to swing the cost for this year, but I AM aiming for next year to come hang out with all your wonderful whore bitches.
is it held in the same place every year?
Quart on 25 Jul 2008 at 4:30 am #
You certainly made quite an impression (and I think you singlehandedly shut down the mommyblogger website - it’s gone!).
What are the chances you can convince the Spohrs to spend next Christmas with us?
Manic Mommy on 25 Jul 2008 at 5:27 am #
What a great recap. And I loved the pictures. I was just commenting some similar thoughts about blogging on JCK’s site. Blogging is what we define it to be. AllMediocre illustrates that to a fault!
Taking it a step futher, BlogHer is what we make of it as well. Perhaps we need to let them know what we want to learn more about. Personally, I know I could totally use a Blogging 101 - Tech specs.
Z on 25 Jul 2008 at 7:29 am #
Why, hello there! Welcome back! Please don’t leave again, mmmmkay? At least without letting me slip into your suitcase first…
I’m so glad you had such a fabulous time at BlogHer, burning hair and funny looks for stealing dirt aside
I’d have loved to be there with you, putting faces and voices to names and writing - so we’ll just have to ALL make a pact to try to make it next year! How ’bout an AllMediocre Blog Party?!?!
Angie @ Keep Believing on 25 Jul 2008 at 8:27 am #
Sounds like you had a good, fun get-away weekend. Good for you.
KEEP BELIEVING
Kristin on 25 Jul 2008 at 11:36 am #
LOVE this site, LOVE ALLMediocre. You rock, and hopefully I will be at Blogher next year. I would love to meet you! Drama and all, it would have been a blast to be there this year! Just from what I have heard has changed my opinions of several bloggers! 99% for the better!
Cereal Dieter on 25 Jul 2008 at 12:36 pm #
I’m so glad you had an amazing time at BlogHer! I really hope to be there next year….
Cereal Dieters last blog post..On Losing Weight
Anita on 25 Jul 2008 at 2:05 pm #
Sounds great, wish I could have gone but no such luck…
maybe next year. Is anyone going to the Blogher tour?
I have to echo everyone’s feelings - allmediocre is really awsome!
Ciao
Anita
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Jenny, Bloggess & Bad Mom on 25 Jul 2008 at 6:52 pm #
You are even cooler in real life than you are in the blog world. If that’s even possible.
Jenny, Bloggess & Bad Moms last blog post..I shouldn’t be allowed to mix with real people
Elaine on 25 Jul 2008 at 9:05 pm #
Thanks for sharing your BlogHer fun with us! I am sorry about your hair and the homeless dudes. {tee hee}
Sounds and looks like you had a great time and I am SO wanting to go next year myself. I think any experience like this is what you make of it and you made it a wonderful one!
Elaines last blog post..My Friend Friday
Erika Jurney on 26 Jul 2008 at 8:50 am #
You lit your hair on fire? Holy crap, woman, you know how to do it up right
Erika Jurneys last blog post..Wow, that went fast
HRH on 29 Jul 2008 at 7:13 pm #
So cool. Glad it was great. I couldn’t find the dirt taking pictures anywhere…
I am seconding the “Worthless Whore Bitches” feet in both worlds thing…
HRHs last blog post..How to get your dog in the car