The Ugly Truth
As it was only appropriate that yesterday’s post be from Courtney, it’s doubly fitting that today’s post be from Amy. She’s one of my dinner dates for tonight and she’s my girl. Amy’s the first person I saw when I arrived at BlogHer in July. And we spent pretty much the entire time together. Even though I’m not as devastatingly tall as she thought I was going to be.
Amy’s on a quest to get healthy and lose some weight. And she’s kicking it’s ass. She shares some of that with us today, something she hasn’t shared before…the UGLY side of losing weight. And she left out the swear words, which is funny, because if there’s ANY place on the web where you can feel at home using swear words, it’s here…
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Over at my normal web home and lately at Cincinnati Losers, I try to put a positive vibe on the topic du jour – my weight loss efforts. I want my posts to be real, but inspirational. I figure, what’s the point of clicking in to read a woman complain about her weight? Yawn.
But since this is Meg’s blog and I’m on a hall pass from the norm, I’m gonna let all my negative thoughts and actions when it comes to weight loss flow like a river. I’m gonna fly the freak flag right here, right now.
We’ll call them the Weight Loss Confessions. Just like Taxi Cab Confessions, but without the tranny hookers.
I have this walking cd, set to happy techno and Latin music with a woman (who I lovingly refer to as ‘skinny bitch’) talking to you, cheering you on to walking euphoria. A couple times during one of the walk-outs (isn’t she clever?) she tells her listeners: “Smile, don’t you feel great? You’re doing it!” Unless someone can prove to me that smiling will increase the caloric burn by 50%, she ain’t about to get a smile out of me.
I’m convinced that people who “love” exercise should probably be locked up for their own safety, and skinny bitch should be the first one in the cell.
Amy: You ate the rest of the Oreos? (tone: incredulous)
Doug: Like, three days ago. Why, did you want them? (tone: sarcastic and uncaring)
Amy: I didn’t have any of those. I would have like to have had a couple. Is that too much to ask? (tone: persecuted)
Doug: They sat around for a week, I figured you didn’t like them. (tone: irritated and uncaring)
Amy: How long have you known me? What eight years now? In that time you’ve seen me consume roughly 15 million Oreo cookies, but now suddenly today, you figured I just didn’t like them anymore? You know they are one of my favorite things and you’re just too selfish to care. It’s just ME ME ME in your little world. (tone: utter and total disbelief)
Doug: Oh my goodness, I’ll go buy you some more freaking Oreos, lighten up. They’re just cookies for heaven’s sake. You’re a whack-job. Did you take your pill today? Please note this is the PG version, in addition to being selfish, Doug also has a terrible potty mouth (tone: prick-ish and uncaring)
Amy: I know we can buy more Oreos! THAT’S NOT THE POINT. (blank stare from Doug) The point is that your were selfish and didn’t even consider my feelings before you shoved the whole bag in your mouth. It’s just ME ME ME in your little world. I know I already said that, I get flustered at this point in my argument as I begin to suffer from low blood sugar (tone: defeated, unloved, unappreciated)
Doug: Besides, I did you a favor, you’re not supposed to be eating those anyway. I thought you wanted to lose weight. (tone: suicidal)
Doug was then decapitated and scattered in the back yard. It was all very GoodFellas-ish.
WLC #3
I love my daughter. I would make any sacrifice to ensure she has the best life possible. A happy childhood for her is my number one priority.
Of course I should probably let you know that this love for her does not extend to sharing my mini-bag of 94% fat-free popcorn. I’m happy to offer her any number of other snack items. But no, what’s in Mommy’s bowl is spun-gold and the only thing she.ever.wants.to.eat.again.
Parker: Mommy, you like you popcorn?
Mommy: Yes I do, dear sweet child of mine.
Parker: Mommy, I like you popcorn too.
Mommy: Wouldn’t you like some cookies or pharmaceutical-grade cocaine instead?
Parker: No, I wanna you popcorn.
Mommy: What about some cash? Cold-hard American cash?
Parker: Mommy not a good sharer uh you popcorn.
Mommy: You’re right, hop up here and Mommy will share (the measly amount of joy she’s afforded each night) the bowl of popcorn.
Parker: Mommy, I like my popcorn.
(Murmured under Mommy’s breath: Sweet baby Jesus, it’s always ME ME ME with this kid)
Ah, it feels good to get those off my chest. Still love me?
We now return you to your regularly scheduled, positive programming.
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Amazing Greis... on 03 Oct 2008 at 7:36 am #
LOL, great post AMY! I like YOU popcorn too!
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Angie @ Keep Believing on 03 Oct 2008 at 7:48 am #
I can relate. On my quest to lose 25 pounds 2-1/2 years ago, there were the uglies associated with it. FOR SURE!
Another things I hated besided those you mentioned were when my family would eat the last piece of MY light bread or MY 100 calorie snacks without realizing THEIR full flavored full fat full caloried snacks were on the shelf where they could REACH them. Note to self: If you want the kids to want it, put it out of their reach. If you DON’T want them to eat it, put it IN their reach.
Also, when we would go out to eat and I was convincing myself how FANTASTIC this salad was that I had ordered while my husband would order his 22 ounce Porterhouse. His euphoric moans with each bite didn’t help. Bastard.
Go AMY! You can do it. Stick with it. My sister inspired to me to lose weight (which I did, but have gained back 10 pounds due to about 8 months of bad eating and decreased exercize when hubby got sick) when she lost nearly 70 pounds by simply changing her eating habits and exercising nearly daily. People like that – including YOU – inspire all.
KEEP BELIEVING
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Joe on 03 Oct 2008 at 11:58 am #
I’m a dude, and I HATE HATE HATE exercising… it’s so boring. it’s kinda fun if you’ve got Wii Fit.
My eating habits are the main reason why I feel the need to exercise. For example… I got home from work about 5 minutes ago and ate a substantially large piece of yellow cake with chocolate frosting. See, I was sick this week. I’m a huge baby when I’m sick. Sarah, loving, beautiful wife, made me a “Joe’s Feel Better Cake” cake. It’s HER fault! She’s enabling me.
I thank God every night for my metabolism.
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Insta-mom on 03 Oct 2008 at 12:17 pm #
People who love exercise should be chained to treadmills on high speed and forced to watch Sarah Palin’s beauty pageant competition. Then *maybe* they’ll understand how exercise makes me feel.
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shannanb aka Mommy Bits on 04 Oct 2008 at 5:08 am #
Ummmm. I feel like you came to my house and listened in. That could totally be me in your Oreo story, only not with oreos because I think they are gross. At my house it would be with the ice cream. Lord help the person who eats the last of the ice cream…..
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JCK on 04 Oct 2008 at 2:34 pm #
I was smiling through your pain here…
Any of those exercise Divas, whether they be DVD, video or tape are crazy making. But, brave, so brave of you to try and hang in there…
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Anna See on 04 Oct 2008 at 4:18 pm #
Amy, I’m not really into sharing my food with family members, so I can relate about the popcorn. My husband will want a “little” bite. Ha!
Keep up the awesome work! It was great to meet you last night!
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anymommy on 05 Oct 2008 at 6:23 am #
My husband and I almost broke up permanently in college over my left over chocolate cake from Olive Garden. MY left over choc cake. Guess who ate it? Without asking. I’m still bitter. I completely get the oreo thing.
But, (i’m whispering now), I love to walk and I hate popcorn? Still love me? I can share with your little girl and you can have yours all to yourself
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Katie on 06 Oct 2008 at 2:48 pm #
LOL Amy.
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Maura on 07 Oct 2008 at 4:11 pm #
But you’re such a giver!
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Domestic Extraordinaire on 09 Oct 2008 at 11:06 am #
LOL! Great post! sorry I missed it when it was first up.
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