For Maddie
Madeline Alice Spohr
November 11, 2007 – April 7, 2009
Sweet, beautiful Maddie passed away unexpectedly on Tuesday, April 7th, 2009. The outpouring of love from around the country, and the world, has been overwhelming. Thank you, so much, to everyone who’s offered love, support, well wishes, prayers, comfort and every other form of encouragement to Maddie’s family. She was an amazing little girl who will be missed by thousands of people, many of whom had never even met her in person.
Heather and Mike have asked that in lieu of flowers, donations be made to March of Dimes in Maddie’s memory.
For more information, visit their websites, The Spohrs are Multiplying and The Newborn Identity and March for Maddie.
Service Information
A service in celebration of Maddie’s life was held at 2:30pm on Tuesday, April 14th, 2009. Family and friends from around the country packed the Old North Chapel at Forest Lawn Memorial Park, Hollywood Hills. For more information on the site, go here. Heather and Mike asked that everyone wear purple in honor of Maddie. It was amazing to see the sea of purple that filled the chapel.
Donations For Maddie’s service and/or reception have been received from:
Team March for Maddie:
If you are in the Los Angeles area, or want to be in the area for the event, the March for Babies Team Maddie walk is Saturday, April 25th. Visit the March for Maddie team site for more information or email undomesticdiva@gmail.com.
T-shirts for the LA walk will be available Saturday morning. We are asking that you pay $20 per shirt, payable to the Paypal account. Please make a note when you make your payment that it’s for t-shirts and be sure to note what sizes you’d like. It’s first come, first serve, so if I run out of a particular size, I’ll have to bump you up a size. Thanks. Email me with questions meghan(@)amomtwoboys(.)com.
Send them love:
A mailbox has been set up for Heather and Mike, so if you would like to send them anything, you can send it to:
Mike & Heather Spohr
11870 Santa Monica Blvd. #106-514
West Los Angeles, CA 90025
It is at a UPS Store, so they can accept packages as well.
Maddie’s Monster:
Maddie’s Monster, designed by Mike and Heather in Maddie’s memory, are now available for purchase from Curly Q Cuties. Purple in honor of Madeline, with eyes as big and blue as hers, these plush dolls are sure to warm your heart. Proceeds from the sales of Maddie’s Monster will go to the March of Dimes.
The code for the button is available here if you’d like to add one to your site.
Donation Information
A PayPal Account has been set up to assist Heather and Mike with any upcoming expenses. You can donate by clicking the link below. All money received will go directly to them to be used at their discretion. Service and Reception costs are adding up, so anything you can contribute will help. Also, Heather was a Stay at Home Mom, and Mike is an independent contractor, so while he’s not working they don’t have any income coming in. The longer he’s able to stay home and grieve, the better. Again, whatever you can contribute will help. Thank you.
*The code for this button is available here*
***The code for this button is available here***
As always, feel free to email me with any questions you have: meghan(@)amomtwoboys(.)com
Remembering Maddie
If you’ve written a post in honor of Maddie, please link to it below so that Heather, Mike, their family and friends can read what you’ve written and understand how truly loved Maddie is. PLEASE, be sure to leave the direct link to your post and not the link to your home page.
I’ll miss you sweet girl. The world is a better place for having had you in it. We love you.
sam {temptingmama} on 08 Apr 2009 at 9:05 am #
Fantiastic idea Meghan! I love that you’ve done this!
You’re truly a fantastic friend!
xoxox
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Vixen on 08 Apr 2009 at 9:05 am #
You are doing some amazing stuff Meghan, bless you. Also I DM’d and emailed you my number if you need any help AT ALL call.
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Maya on 08 Apr 2009 at 9:11 am #
Oh my sweet heather….. i ache about this. I havent been able to go to work or leave my room. they will get through this.
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Adventures In Babywearing on 08 Apr 2009 at 9:11 am #
My heart, it just aches for them. I don’t know what to do or say. Please know we are here- so many- we are holding you up.
Steph
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Quart on 08 Apr 2009 at 9:19 am #
It’s so good of you to do this, Meg. I think I’m going to sign up for a MOD walk here – wish I could come to LA, though.
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Kris on 08 Apr 2009 at 9:19 am #
Mike & Heather are very lucky to have such a wonderful friend helping with things like this and doing everything you can to help them through this. Maddie would be proud I think. (((hugs)))
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Undomestic Diva on 08 Apr 2009 at 9:19 am #
Thank you for taking the shitty job of messenger and for keeping us all informed. We all feel helpless and you’ve done an amazing job of organizing us and taking action and taking the lead. Just tell me what to do. I’m not far and I’ll do whatever I can.
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pgoodness on 08 Apr 2009 at 9:20 am #
Thanks for doing this for them, you are a great friend.
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Maternal Mirth on 08 Apr 2009 at 9:25 am #
I am overwhelmed, sad and devestated for their loss … I can only thank God for giving me the oppurtunity to meet her and hold her precious self in my arms. My heart breaks for Heather and Mike…
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rachel-asouthernfairytale on 08 Apr 2009 at 9:27 am #
Wonderful! I was thinking about doing this but wasn’t home! I’m so glad you did it!
Bless you. {hugs}
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Angie [A Whole Lot of Nothing] on 08 Apr 2009 at 9:29 am #
Great job here. You’re a true friend.
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Redneck Mommy on 08 Apr 2009 at 9:30 am #
Please let me know about the arrangements.
Thank you for being such a good friend to Heather. That is really the only thing that makes this difficult time a wee easier.
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Maria on 08 Apr 2009 at 9:32 am #
Thank you Meghan for helping and keeping us updated.
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Malia on 08 Apr 2009 at 9:35 am #
Meghan, thank you so much for setting this up!!
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Sarcastic Mom on 08 Apr 2009 at 9:35 am #
So heartbreaking. Let us know whatever you hear, and however we can help.
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Amy in OHio on 08 Apr 2009 at 9:37 am #
I love you lady.
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Miss on 08 Apr 2009 at 9:38 am #
This is beautiful Meghan. What you’ve done for Heather in Mike during this time will always mean something to them.
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SusieO on 08 Apr 2009 at 9:44 am #
Bless you Meghan. And armfuls of love and respect and strength to Heather and Mike. We are all so lucky to have witnessed the shining star that is Maddie.
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mp on 08 Apr 2009 at 9:44 am #
I didn’t do a “post” on Maddie, I didn’t know her or Heather..or read their blogs but it’s quite obvious my blog friends due. I’ve seen the tweets, notices on Facebook and and trying to do my part by retweeting and updating my status update on Facebook so many times my RL friends are wondering what’s going on.
I hope that what I have done today may help a little bit..either by money or just awareness. My thoughts and prayers are with the family…just heartbreaking.
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Jackie on 08 Apr 2009 at 9:45 am #
Meghan, Thank you for consistently updating. Heather and Mike I’m sure feel so much more at ease knowing that you’re being the messenger.
I love you Maddie. I love you Heather and Mike.
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Insta-Mom on 08 Apr 2009 at 9:46 am #
You rock.
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mrs.chicken on 08 Apr 2009 at 9:46 am #
No words for this. Just sending love.
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Becky on 08 Apr 2009 at 9:47 am #
*hugs*
You’re a wonderful friend.
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Rachel on 08 Apr 2009 at 9:48 am #
I don’t have a blog…but I’ve been reading Heather’s and Mike’s for a long time. I am so sad. Thank you for doing this. You’re a great friend.
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Velma on 08 Apr 2009 at 9:57 am #
Thanks for pulling this all together during such a sad, sad time.
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fidget on 08 Apr 2009 at 9:57 am #
thank you for keeping everything organized and taking up the task of getting Heathers blog up again.
xoxo
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Cute~Ella on 08 Apr 2009 at 9:59 am #
You are an angel for being so good to them during this very difficult time.
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Heather @ Domestic Extraordinaire on 08 Apr 2009 at 10:01 am #
thanks babe!
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Headless Mom on 08 Apr 2009 at 10:02 am #
I wasn’t trying to compete… I also have a list up. Let me know what else I can do.
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BarbaraJones on 08 Apr 2009 at 10:02 am #
Thanks for doing this–you’re a great friend and it will be great to gather all the posts. Once again, the sisterhood of blogging and social media shows its true colors. Our hearts, minds and prayers are all aimed at Maddie and her family.
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Burgh Baby on 08 Apr 2009 at 10:02 am #
Thank you.
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ali on 08 Apr 2009 at 10:04 am #
thank you so much for doing this. YOU ARE SUCH A GOOD FRIEND. hugs.
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EatPlayLove on 08 Apr 2009 at 10:12 am #
I just sent out an email to the SVMoms group providing your links, thank you meghan, you are an amazing woman.
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merlotmom on 08 Apr 2009 at 10:22 am #
You’re a great friend Meghan. I would love to walk with you and whatever loving posse is assembled for LA.
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Maura on 08 Apr 2009 at 10:22 am #
You are the best friend a person could have. Thank you for doing this. You know that there is anything I can do, you need only ask.
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Fiesty Charlie on 08 Apr 2009 at 10:25 am #
Thank you for giving us a place to share our thoughts and grief. I have posted the MoD link and PayPal information on my blog.
What else can we do? Can you think of anything Heather and Mike need?
Please don’t hesitate to ask and if it is within my power, I will make it happen.
Peace in your hearts… is my wish for this second.
CJ
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kelly on 08 Apr 2009 at 10:32 am #
I’m so sorry! Prayers are with you all!
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Kristin on 08 Apr 2009 at 10:37 am #
Thank you, and everyone else, for keeping us informed. I only know Heather and Mike and Maddie thru their blogs, but I feel like they are friends. This has just been awful. Sending them my love.
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Bec on 08 Apr 2009 at 10:40 am #
You’re doing such a wonderful thing. I’m glad Heather has a friend like you.
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Monica on 08 Apr 2009 at 10:41 am #
In prayer for all those that loved Maddie. My heart is breaking for their loss.
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Lena on 08 Apr 2009 at 10:41 am #
My prayers are with Heather and her family right now.
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Jes on 08 Apr 2009 at 10:42 am #
Thank you for all the information and updates. As has been said many times you are an amazing friend. My prayers go out to Heather, Mike and their families.
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Daddy Dan on 08 Apr 2009 at 10:48 am #
Great job, Meghan! Please contact me if you need help with ANYTHING.
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cindy w on 08 Apr 2009 at 10:56 am #
Meghan, this is great. I hope that Heather and Mike see this and know how much love and support is around them.
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Caroline on 08 Apr 2009 at 11:02 am #
You know, I wrote my post about the excessive abundance, can hardly contain it, LIFE of my two boys last night but saved it as a draft and went to bed. This morning I woke up to the news of Maddie’s passing. I have been utterly heartbroken all day. So I posted what I wrote last night, but truly in her honor. Heather has an amazing friend in you. And I am grateful for your site being a place to grieve for Maddie today. I know she is shining above as brightly as she shown here. I am sending peace and prayers to the Spohrs today.
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jen on 08 Apr 2009 at 11:02 am #
i wish i could do more … donations and sorries don’t seem like enough.
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jkewilliams on 08 Apr 2009 at 11:08 am #
You are all in my thoughts and prayers. No words can express the sorrow and sympathy I have for you all during this time. I hope the love and support of ‘virtual’ strangers and friends will help you through this difficult time. Please know we are here for you.
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Jennifer on 08 Apr 2009 at 11:09 am #
Please delete linky 71 – Mr. Linky had saved my last entry and it’s the wrong post. 74 is the correct link; I’m so sorry for the error.
This just tears my heart into pieces. My own girl was born 10 weeks early, and it is just so hard to be afraid of losing. I am so grateful that she is well, and I cannot imagine how Ms. Spohr must be feeling.
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DesignHER Momma on 08 Apr 2009 at 11:24 am #
thanks for doing this – coming together feels good.
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VegasDad on 08 Apr 2009 at 11:28 am #
My heart aches!!!
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Tonay Cinnamon on 08 Apr 2009 at 11:31 am #
I left a link from my blog and made donation to March of Dimes in memory of Maddie.
There are no true words to express grief today.
Hugs Tonya Cinnamon
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But Why Mommy on 08 Apr 2009 at 11:35 am #
Thank you for doing this. My heart goes out to Mike and Heather.
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Wendy on 08 Apr 2009 at 11:39 am #
I’ve been following this on Twitter all day. My heart breaks for you.
It’s not fair, it’s not fair, it’s not fair.
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Some answers would be nice « Never A Dull Moment on 08 Apr 2009 at 11:41 am #
[...] I’m writing about two families today. Two families who have never met, to my knowledge, but who are both struggling. The blogosphere is in mourning today for young Maddie Spohr, who passed away unexpectedly yesterday. Her mom, Heather, writes The Spohrs Are Multiplying (I’d link here, but her site is down today from all the traffic). The family has requested that in lieu of flowers and cards, that donations be made to the March of Dimes. Because sites are going down left and right today, I’m linking to A Mom Two Boys for the donation information. [...]
Keonte' on 08 Apr 2009 at 11:44 am #
Madeline, you were, and still are an angel. May God continue to bless your family with great strength and extra support.
You were truly an addition to the lives of everyone.
Lots of hugs for your Mom and Dad.
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anymommy on 08 Apr 2009 at 11:47 am #
This is wonderful. I could (and will) read these posts and look at her pictures all day.
Hugs to you. To Mike and Heather and Maddie, peace and love.
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Rachael on 08 Apr 2009 at 11:54 am #
This is absolutely amazing.
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Thefunkyfeline on 08 Apr 2009 at 12:29 pm #
Thank you for showing me what true friendship is
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Her Bad Mother on 08 Apr 2009 at 12:29 pm #
Gah, messed up my links in mr linky. My Maddie post is here: http://badladies.blogspot.com/2009/04/pitiless-mercy-of-time.html
Bless you for doing this. And all the love in the world to the Spohrs.
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Mama Bub on 08 Apr 2009 at 12:38 pm #
I said it in an email, but I’ll say it here again: You are an incredible person and friend for doing all of this.
All my thoughts and prayers are with the Spohrs today.
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gingerB on 08 Apr 2009 at 12:41 pm #
Since I found the Spohrs’ story, I have been so moved by Heather’s website and love for her daughter and family, and grateful for her sharing her thoughts I had not yet expressed to myself about being the mother of a preemie or the mother of a baby with other lifelong health conditions. Heather and Mike, your example is a testament of love. You deserved so much more time with your angel. Deepest sympathy to you and your family.
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Alison on 08 Apr 2009 at 12:45 pm #
Wrote about how Maddie changed my life. Sweet Madeline will be missed.
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Alison on 08 Apr 2009 at 12:46 pm #
It’s up there in Linky, but here it is too
http://lettersformultiples.blogspot.com/2009/04/madeline-alice-spohr.html
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misfithausfrau on 08 Apr 2009 at 12:49 pm #
Thank you for doing this.
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Overflowing Brain (Katie) on 08 Apr 2009 at 12:59 pm #
I felt like I was walking in a haze all day. I honestly cannot believe that Maddie is gone.
Truly, the world seems a little less bright today.
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Miss Grace on 08 Apr 2009 at 12:59 pm #
Maddie will surely be missed.
She is loved.
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Jen in Maryland on 08 Apr 2009 at 1:03 pm #
I don’t have a blog of my own but I’ve been following Heather’s blog for months now. I’m heartbroken about Maddie’s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with Heather, Mike and all their family and friends. Thank you for doing this. I’ve made a donation to MOD in honor of Maddie.
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Susan (5 Minutes for Mom) on 08 Apr 2009 at 1:04 pm #
Maddie is an angel. Joy shines through her eyes and you can feel it in each photo of her.
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mommypie on 08 Apr 2009 at 1:05 pm #
I just heard the news and am absolutely heartbroken. Thank you so much for keeping everyone updated — praying for Mike and Heather and all who knew and loved beautiful little Maddie.
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Leah on 08 Apr 2009 at 1:16 pm #
May her memory be for a blessing.
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Sarah on 08 Apr 2009 at 1:16 pm #
I don’t know Heather, Mike, or Maddie, but met them just through blogs yesterday morning…. what a beautiful family and how heartbreaking. It’s comforting to know they have friends like you, Meghan, around them at this time!
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Karen on 08 Apr 2009 at 1:19 pm #
I was new to their blog but loving it. This is a great idea for them.
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Elaine on 08 Apr 2009 at 1:23 pm #
I didn’t “know” Maddie but my heart just breaks for this family. You are a good friend. I pray that they somehow find peace in knowing how many lives their sweet angel has touched.
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Mary on 08 Apr 2009 at 1:27 pm #
What a great way for the blog-o-sphere to be able to show their support for one of our own when we are all feeling desperate to do something. There are just no words to express the helplessness and sorrow I feel for this family.
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Auds at Barking Mad on 08 Apr 2009 at 2:03 pm #
Was so hard writing through the tears. Brings back so many painful memories.
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ms. changes pants while driving on 08 Apr 2009 at 2:09 pm #
thank you for bringing everything together. i’m in san diego and i want to help in any way i can.
@wonkwonk
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Karianna on 08 Apr 2009 at 2:21 pm #
Hugs, tears, prayers, and memories. I cannot even imagine losing a child, so cannot properly convey my heartfelt wishes for peace and healing.
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Tori at Babybloomr on 08 Apr 2009 at 2:23 pm #
Thank you for doing this. Sometimes the power of community just takes my breath away.
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Stephanie on 08 Apr 2009 at 2:46 pm #
I don’t have a blog – but if I did, I feel like I could write for hours about how Maddie’s sweet face brightened my day, every day (not to mention everyone in my office). Although I never had the honor of meeting her, I will keep the entire Spohr family in my thoughts and prayers. My heart breaks for them, but I know she is showing off her trademark smile from heaven right now.Thanks so much for doing this, you are truly a great friend.
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Heather on 08 Apr 2009 at 2:53 pm #
This is the first time I have ever done anything like this, but Maddie’s story really spoke to me, and I wanted to do what I could to honor her. It’s wonderful to see so much love and support. Thanks for doing this for them.
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Kimmie on 08 Apr 2009 at 2:56 pm #
Moosh in Indy has been telling me just how rawking you are. So glad to be able to see it first hand. Thanks for all you are doing for Heather. We love her and Mike and Maddie so much. Loves.
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Tricia on 08 Apr 2009 at 2:56 pm #
Wonderful idea Megan. I can’t believe this is happening..I thought I read it wrong.
I haven’t been able to concentrate all day today, I can’t get them out of my mind. Utterly heartbreaking. I only got to meet Madeline Angel once in person and have only known them a short while but couldn’t help but fall in love with that awesome smile and those beautiful eyes. Big *HUGS* to everyone especailly the Spohrs. <3
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Jen on 08 Apr 2009 at 2:57 pm #
Mike and Heather are so blessed to have you as a friend. I hope they can find pieces of comfort in all the love and support shown today.
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nic @MyBottle'sUp! on 08 Apr 2009 at 3:12 pm #
meghan, you are doing such a wonderful job building this community to help in the healing process. well done, my friend.
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Christy on 08 Apr 2009 at 3:12 pm #
Of course there are no words that can touch this…I am just so incredibly sad for Heather, Mike, and they’re family. I hope that they are able to feel the love and support sent to them–even if only a little bit. Thank you for helping to take care of them.
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HeatherPride on 08 Apr 2009 at 3:20 pm #
I’m at a loss. I’m just so sorry. I’ve been thinking of Mike and Heather and Maddie all day and shedding tears for a family that I never knew, but feel like I did. My heart goes out to them. So very sorry.
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Rebecca on 08 Apr 2009 at 3:50 pm #
We were so blessed by Maddie’s miraculous story and her family’s obvious love for life. Our prayers are with the entire family and for friends like you who are taking care of them.
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Julie on 08 Apr 2009 at 3:51 pm #
I had not known about Maddie, her family or Heathers blog until just before going to bed last night and I started seeing tweets about this. I can only imagine that the loss of a child like this must be one of life’s most horrendous experiences. There really are no words for this, I just want to be part of the arms of the world around this devastated family. I will do what I can with my website to help generate funds for the Sporh’s as well as donations to March Of Dimes.
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Leticia- Tech Savvy Mama on 08 Apr 2009 at 4:21 pm #
I am incredibly sad to hear of Heather and Mike’s loss and while there are no words that could possibly bring them comfort during this very difficult time, I just want them to know I’m thinking of them and their darling Maddie.
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Whateverkaty on 08 Apr 2009 at 4:55 pm #
I’ve been the friend holding hands, making arrangements, paying bills and driving two broken parents home from the hospital without their beautiful angel with them. You are that friend now and I wish with all my heart that it wasn’t necessary. We are thinking of them and of you too, take time to grieve yourself as you help your friends.
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Michele Lamar-WTM on 08 Apr 2009 at 4:56 pm #
There is nothing I can say. I wish I was there with Heather right now.
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Andrea's Sweet Life on 08 Apr 2009 at 4:56 pm #
Maddie Moo will always be a shining light for all of us whose life she touched. My heart is with you guys every minute of the day.
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T@SendChocolate on 08 Apr 2009 at 5:05 pm #
You are a wonderful friend, Meghan. I am so sorry you even have to do this.
I am just numb over this turn of events. And so sad for Heather.
Thanks for keeping updated.
T.
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Amelia Sprout on 08 Apr 2009 at 5:16 pm #
I’m at a loss for words, for the most part. It all seems so unimaginable, like it shouldn’t be true. I hope that they are well, and know how many people loved that sweet little girl. (and them too)
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Kellie on 08 Apr 2009 at 5:37 pm #
Hi–I’ve never been here before, but learned of Maddie’s passing through a blog friend on Twitter. I, somehow, got to your blog and wanted to thank you for the information. I have put up a post on my blog about Maddie and have linked to the March of Dimes where people can donate in her name.
It amazes me that the heartache a family is feeling can impact so many strangers. It shows there IS good in this world.
You’re awesome for posting all this helpful information. Thanks, again.
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Alexa on 08 Apr 2009 at 5:47 pm #
Thank you.
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blissfully caffeinated on 08 Apr 2009 at 5:54 pm #
The only word I can think of is “heartbreaking”.
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Sticky on 08 Apr 2009 at 5:57 pm #
my love and prayers to all of you. Wonderful friend for doing this…
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Sarcastic Mom on 08 Apr 2009 at 5:59 pm #
I’m keeping a running list of walk teams on this post:
http://sarcasticmom.com/walk-for-maddie/
Trying to encourage people to start MoD walk teams just for Maddie in their area and then recruit walkers locally to join in, since we can’t all be in LA, but we sure can walk our butts in our own towns or nearby in her name!
Updating as new teams are created.
If anyone hears of any, or creates them, please let me know so I can add to the list.
And pass on the URL so people can find the team in their area and join!
Meghan, let me know if there’s anything else I can do.
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Susanna on 08 Apr 2009 at 6:09 pm #
heartbroken.
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Kirsten on 08 Apr 2009 at 6:11 pm #
I am so glad to have found this as I would love to send something to Heather & Mike. As I said in my post, I only knew of Maddie through other blogs but she had a face no one could ever forget…absolutely beautiful. What a precious girl. My heart has been aching all day & I will be sending many, many prayers to Heather, Mike and all who loved and lost their sweet Maddie.
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samantha jo campen on 08 Apr 2009 at 6:11 pm #
God Bless you Maddie.
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Becky Mochaface on 08 Apr 2009 at 6:33 pm #
I have no words. You are in my thoughts and prayers. And yet I feel like that is not enough. I am so sorry.
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Kelly on 08 Apr 2009 at 6:55 pm #
I’m heartbroken. What a tragedy to lose this little ray of sunshine. There is no way to understand why things like this happen, but I hope and pray for Heather, Mike and their whole family that God will grant them peace, comfort and strength during this terrible time. They are in my thoughts and prayers, sincerely.
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stacie on 08 Apr 2009 at 6:58 pm #
My love and support are with Heather, Mike and their family. The world has lost a great treasure in little Maddie. Hugs.
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Sara on 08 Apr 2009 at 7:03 pm #
I’ve only been following the Spohrs and Maddie for a short while, but her death has affected me greatly today. My heart goes out to the family. You are in my prayers.
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andi on 08 Apr 2009 at 7:07 pm #
Thank you so much for doing this, Meghan. When a friend emailed me this morning to tell me what happened, I couldn’t believe it. I will miss Maddie’s big sparkling eyes and her beautiful smile.
I just don’t know what to say – I’m so devastated and cannot imagine what Heather and Mike are going through. Sending all my love to Heather and Mike. I know that there is nothing that anyone can say or do that will make it better or bring sweet Maddie back, but I hope that all of the love and support of the community, and their family and friends will help them survive this horrible time.
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Nichol on 08 Apr 2009 at 7:23 pm #
My thoughts, and prayers are with you and your whole family. I don’t have any words to say. I am so sorry for the loss of such a beautiful, precious angel! *HUGS*
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Ri on 08 Apr 2009 at 7:50 pm #
Love, prayers and tears…for all.
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Jennifer on 08 Apr 2009 at 8:17 pm #
I never met Heather, Maddie or Mike but my heart is filled with much love for them all. I’ll be thinking of you all. I’m so sorry is all I can say.
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Nanette on 08 Apr 2009 at 8:24 pm #
My post is up. And thank you again for all your efforts.
(Don’t know if you remember me, but I believe we met at Heather’s bottled water cocktail party. I was the pregnant one. )
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BusyDad on 08 Apr 2009 at 9:17 pm #
still cannot believe it. that smile is forever.
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Amanda on 08 Apr 2009 at 9:59 pm #
Fierce love to Maddies’ entire family.
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denise on 08 Apr 2009 at 10:19 pm #
I hope this is not too strange, but the Spohr family does not know me. I stumbled across this news quite by accident. My heart goes out to this family. I will certainly donate to the March of Dimes. I am so very sorry.
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Kari (heartatpreschool) on 08 Apr 2009 at 10:21 pm #
This is such a beautiful tribute. Maddie touched so many people’s lives.
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Maura on 08 Apr 2009 at 11:06 pm #
It took me all day to be able to pull my thoughts and emotions together enough to write about them, but I did it. Thank you for making this place possible, Meghan.
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Laura Smith on 09 Apr 2009 at 3:56 am #
Lots of Love and Prayers to all of Maddie’s family!
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Amazing Greis on 09 Apr 2009 at 4:05 am #
Just in case you haven’t heard it enough; You ROCK! Thanks for all that you have and are doing for the Spohr’s.
Let me know if you need my help with anything. I may not be in Cali., but I’ll do anything to help.
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Liz@thisfullhouse on 09 Apr 2009 at 4:26 am #
I was very saddened to hear of the loss of sweet Maddie. She’s a perfect little angel. Peace and comfort to all who knew and loved her. Thank you for sharing.
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gracieo on 09 Apr 2009 at 4:28 am #
My thoughts and prayers are with the family. I can’t imagine what they are going thru.
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Peggy on 09 Apr 2009 at 5:03 am #
Meghan, I woke up at 3:30 am yesterday morning and read the heartbreaking news. I didn’t know the Spohrs but for Heather through her blog/twitter. Maddie is an angel now who will help Heather and Mike through their grief from Heaven but you are an angel here on earth for all that you did for them yesterday. You are truly a special friend to the Spohrs and a special person.
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melanie on 09 Apr 2009 at 5:04 am #
You are a wonderful friend! HUgs!
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Z on 09 Apr 2009 at 5:26 am #
Meghan – thanks so much for doing this.
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kdiddy on 09 Apr 2009 at 5:34 am #
My post is very short, but I couldn’t think of what to say. It’s just heartbreaking.
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Laurie on 09 Apr 2009 at 5:55 am #
Thanks for keeping us all updated and please pass along our love, hugs, and support to the family. You are a great friend!
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Manic Mommy on 09 Apr 2009 at 6:14 am #
My heart aches for them although I don’t know them. I know they are your friends and Fran’s. I hope that the support that is criss-crossing the blogosphere offers some solace, no matter how small. We may count our blessings but we don’t dare imagine them being taken away. I am praying for Mike and Heather.
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Tanya Underwood on 09 Apr 2009 at 6:24 am #
So sorry for your loss, she is a beautiful little girl and now she is singing with the angels. I wish there was something i could say that would make you feel better but words are inadequate. I will be praying for you and your family as you grieve the loss of this preciouse life.
Tanya Underwood
Bossier City, LA.
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Amy on 09 Apr 2009 at 6:34 am #
My heart is breaking for Heather and Mike. I will be praying that they will be able to find peace during this tragic time. Maddie’s story has touched my life and my heart .
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Pocklock on 09 Apr 2009 at 6:51 am #
My heart breaks for Heather and Mike. I hope they can find some sort of peace knowing Maddie is with the most special of angels. What a loved little girl she will always be.
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Marching for Maddie « Amy in OHio on 09 Apr 2009 at 6:55 am #
[...] devastation. And that is what they are to me, family. I was lucky enough to get to know Heather via Meghan after BlogHer last year and Heather and I spent quality time together at Blissdom in February, much [...]
maggie, dammit on 09 Apr 2009 at 7:21 am #
This is incredible. Just incredible.
Thank you for putting it together.
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Ceece on 09 Apr 2009 at 8:41 am #
How amazing this is. We love you Maddie and take care of your mom and dad, kiddo!
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Daisy on 09 Apr 2009 at 9:30 am #
Clearly, the blogging community has banded together for Maddie’s parents. It’s good to see.
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Jen on 09 Apr 2009 at 9:33 am #
I am amazed, but not surprised, at the impact Maddie made on people during her short time here. What an amazing tribute to her life.
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Michelle on 09 Apr 2009 at 9:38 am #
Wow – you are truly amazing. I have just came across Heather’s blog today and the tragedy is far beyond words. My love and prayers go out to them. You and the entire community rallying around the Spohrs inspire me.
Thank you for being such a loving, giving person.
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Quart on 09 Apr 2009 at 9:50 am #
I am having such a hard time comprehending the fact that Heather posted those pictures on Facebook Saturday, and Maddie was gone on Tuesday. That doesn’t make sense to me. The fact that Maddie had such an impact on so many people – most of whom never met her – speaks volumes, and I think that all of your posts are amazing. We’re so lucky that Heather and Mike shared Maddie’s life with us. I’m sure that they, too, will be grateful for all of your kids words about their precious little girl. Thank you for doing this, Meg.
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lilfootsmommy on 09 Apr 2009 at 10:08 am #
My heart goes out to you Mike and Heather. I am thinking of and praying for you and your heartbreaking loss. Although we’ve never met, and I hadn’t heard of your story even until yesterday, it touched me so deeply. I pray you find peace and comfort in your little angel.
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jess on 09 Apr 2009 at 10:18 am #
I’m so glad you’re doing this.
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jen @ negative lane on 09 Apr 2009 at 10:24 am #
I was touched and saddened to read of the loss of Heather and Mike’s daughter Maddie. My heart goes out to them.
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katydid6 on 09 Apr 2009 at 10:53 am #
Our hearts and prayers are with you and your entire family, Heather and Mike. I had the pleasure of meeting Heather briefly at Blissdom and I’ve loved reading the blog ever since. So heartbroken for you.
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Sue on 09 Apr 2009 at 11:12 am #
Our thoughts and prayers are with Heather and Mike. I can’t even imagine what they are going through. Our own little Maddie-Claire was born at almost 26 weeks in Dec 2007. I can’t imagine losing her. I will hug my babies closer tonight.
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Lotta on 09 Apr 2009 at 12:24 pm #
I’m so thrilled to see all these posts going up in Maddie’s honor. Corny I know, but I believe that all that good energy is finding it’s way to her in heaven. I hope it brings her family some measure of comfort.
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Amy on 09 Apr 2009 at 1:37 pm #
You are all in my prayers.
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Amanda on 09 Apr 2009 at 1:38 pm #
I can’t believe it.
All the posts. It’s amazing.
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MJ on 09 Apr 2009 at 1:45 pm #
My thoughts go out to you (and, of course, to Madeline’s parents and family). How lucky for Heather to have a friend like you to lean on. And how wonderful for the internets to answer back with resounding echos of love.
Take care of yourself. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
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charlotte on 09 Apr 2009 at 2:01 pm #
This is still inconceivable to me. I know that tonight, I’ll hug my little daughter just a tad closer. And I won’t ever complain about her waking me up at 3 a.m. again.
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Miranda on 09 Apr 2009 at 2:11 pm #
I can’t believe I’m just now learning of this… my heart is aching for Heather and her family. I’ll be praying for them.
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Coral on 09 Apr 2009 at 2:32 pm #
Heather and Mike… I think so many of us feel that we have come to know your family and watched your sweet girl grow. My heart aches for your loss. I am so sorry.
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Keary Naughton on 09 Apr 2009 at 3:42 pm #
Although I don’t have a blog, I do read alot of them and Heathers is one I read on a regular basis. My heart is broken for them- just broken. I will miss seeing that great wide open smile of hers. My heart is with them at this time–
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Nikki on 09 Apr 2009 at 4:50 pm #
Today was the first time I have ever heard of your family and yet I am so saddened by the loss of your little girl. I am so, so sad for you and know that no words can change that pain. But I also know she is with God now, she isn’t in pain, she’s never sad or sick and she will be your sweet, beautiful guardian angel until you all can be together again someday. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Your little girl is and was so truly beautiful. You could see the sunshine radiate out of her sweet eyes and smile in every picture. What a great gift to have all those wonderful pictures to remind you of her in the future when you feel down. God bless you. Take care. Again, I am so sorry.
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Rachel on 09 Apr 2009 at 7:09 pm #
I didn’t know Madeleine, or the Spohrs, but I read the sad news on another blog and was moved to tears at how much love everyone has shown this little girl.
I hope wherever she is, she knows how much she is loved.
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Teresa on 09 Apr 2009 at 7:19 pm #
I am so sorry for your loss. I am Folding Laundry’s SIL and just read about Maddie on her post. From her picture, you could see the joy and abundant life in her beautiful eyes. My prayers are with you and your family during this heartbreaking time. I pray for peace, love and comfort to surround you during your days of sorrow.
God Bless You,
Army Wife
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Joe @ Irrational Dad on 09 Apr 2009 at 7:28 pm #
Thank you for organizing a place for us to find all these beautiful posts. I hope mine does just a little bit of justice to their beautiful family. You truly are a great friend to the Spohrs.
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mommy boo of two on 09 Apr 2009 at 7:30 pm #
much love and support to heather and mike for the loss of maddie. they’ll be in my thoughts and prayers.
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Elizabeth on 09 Apr 2009 at 8:02 pm #
I’m a long-time silent reader of Heather’s. Thank you for organizing all of this–I posted a link to the March of Dimes in honor of Maddie on my site. It’s so incredible and beautiful how the internet community has pulled together in the midst of grief.
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Lexi on 09 Apr 2009 at 8:10 pm #
Heart aching, tears flowing…
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Ms. Changes Pants While Driving on 09 Apr 2009 at 8:31 pm #
oh god. now it’s true, right? the fact that there’s a service makes it true?
i hate it. i hate that i’ll see all these people. and i probably would never have met them if this hadn’t happened.
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Sharon on 09 Apr 2009 at 8:35 pm #
I don’t know this little family but I read the blogs daily. Unfortunately, I know firsthand what the Spohrs are going through and my heart aches for them and their indescribable sorrow. There are no words.
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Karen J on 09 Apr 2009 at 10:08 pm #
Although I didn’t know this precious angel, my heart weeps at the loss. As a mother, I can only imagine. My thoughts are with the family and huge circle of friends who knew her. Each word I have read tonight, here and elsewhere, rings with love. An angel flies and another star shines bright in the sky.
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Eric on 09 Apr 2009 at 10:10 pm #
I hope all the kind words offered by so many bring a little bit of comfort to you. You are in my thoughts and know you do not grieve alone…
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Mama Kalila on 09 Apr 2009 at 10:54 pm #
I’m glad you did this… It was a very sweet idea.
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Fairly Odd Mother on 10 Apr 2009 at 2:42 am #
Thank you for pulling all the links together. You are a good friend to think about these details so that Heather and Mike will always know how many people Maddie touched. My heart has hurt since I heard the sad news. How I wish that things could be different.
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Teresa Martinez on 10 Apr 2009 at 6:59 am #
Maddie has touched so many lives and we can only be thankful that you have shared her with us all.
God Bless
xoxo
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Dawn on 10 Apr 2009 at 7:04 am #
Not even sure how I came across this – this – tragedy – but I did and it’s heartbreaking. Sending love from Boston.
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Kaycee on 10 Apr 2009 at 8:51 am #
We’ll be marching for Maddie in Utah on May 2nd. God bless the Spohrs, and you for hosting these links.
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Jenny on 10 Apr 2009 at 10:18 am #
I’ve never you met you before. Until I looked at Matt’s blog today, I never even know your name. Now, I sit here in tears. I am so sorry for your loss. Know that people all over the country are praying for you during this extrememly difficult time. I send you my strength.
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Jenny on 10 Apr 2009 at 10:19 am #
I’ve never you met you before. Until I looked at Matt’s blog today, I never even knew your name. Now, I sit here in tears. I am so sorry for your loss. Know that people all over the country are praying for you during this extrememly difficult time. I send you my strength.
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Kristabella on 10 Apr 2009 at 10:26 am #
Heather and Mike are so very lucky to have a friend like you in their lives.
And we on the Internet are lucky that you are doing so much for them and that we can participate and help in any way that we can.
Maddie will be missed.
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Jen on 10 Apr 2009 at 11:02 am #
I don’t know Maddie or her family, but as a fellow mother, my heart goes out to them. (I made a small donation and the only reason I mention this is that Maddie’s family will have no idea who I am).
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Johnnie Albright on 10 Apr 2009 at 11:50 am #
be of good cheer and God bless, Bro.john
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Christine on 10 Apr 2009 at 12:22 pm #
Thank you for doing this.
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Dee on 10 Apr 2009 at 12:50 pm #
Just a stranger sending love and hugs…..
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Brenna on 10 Apr 2009 at 1:28 pm #
What a great friend you are. Thank you for providing all of us with the information and links. My heart goes out to Heather and Mike and all those who loved Maddie.
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LizardBreatg on 10 Apr 2009 at 3:17 pm #
We only “knew” Maddie via the blogosphere but we fell in love with her a long time ago. We hope we can do something.
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Rebecca on 10 Apr 2009 at 3:53 pm #
I am so sorry for the loss of Maddie. I never knew the family, but have seen the story through Twitter updates. I have no words, other than may God be with you through this time of grief. Maddie was a beautiful little girl.
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Kate Coveny Hood on 10 Apr 2009 at 5:49 pm #
What a wonderful idea. Even my friends who don’t have blogs (you know, the ones who say “what’s a blog?”) have been touched by this story. People everywhere are feeling greatful for having one more day with their children. This perspective is a gift – thought I wish it didn’t come at such a terrible price.
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guarros on 10 Apr 2009 at 8:31 pm #
Thank you for all that you have done – and while only knowing you from a distance in this virtual world – what I do know is it is what you did, because that’s what you do. Thank you, all the same. My heart, thoughts & prayers are with your family and of course the Spohrs/ take care.
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Kari on 11 Apr 2009 at 8:16 am #
God Bless Maddie!
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melodi on 11 Apr 2009 at 9:54 am #
Our prayers are with you. She was a beautiful girl. May God heal your broken hearts
melodi
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Tracey on 11 Apr 2009 at 12:26 pm #
You’ve done an amazing thing here.
I’m just heartbroken for the Spohr family. Can’t begin to fathom their grief….
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sophia leto on 11 Apr 2009 at 2:03 pm #
I’m so sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine going through this. Our family is thinking of yours. Sophia Leto of CMB (a.k.a. Moody Mommy)
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Jennifer on 11 Apr 2009 at 4:04 pm #
In shock and deep sadness. As the previous poster shared, I definatel have a lot more patience with my own 3 small children although I wish that Maddie leaving did not have to be the price. My heat is heavy and sad for your pain.
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hip_m0m77 on 11 Apr 2009 at 5:32 pm #
Heather and Mike,
Please know that your loss is something that I may not be able to comprehend on a personal level, but I truly mourn for Maddie and send my deepest sympathies to you, and all who have been blessed for having known her.
We are all here because we love you and we’ll continue to be here for you as you move forward.
Thank you for sharing Maddie with us all. Her smile, her innocence and her strength will serve to remind me what – and who – is important in this world.
God Bless
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ilinap on 12 Apr 2009 at 3:47 am #
Such sadness. Our prayers and thoughts and love are with the Spohrs.
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amanda on 12 Apr 2009 at 5:14 am #
thank you for collecting these posts. you are a wonderful friend to the Spohrs. My heart has been with them all week.
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Angela McCoy on 12 Apr 2009 at 8:00 am #
Our deepest sympathies go out to Little Maddie’s family and friends. We are in tears here in Highland Park, IL. Please know that we are here for you, Heather and Mike. Please know that Maddie’s life has touched the hearts of many.
She is loved by all who knew her in her Earthly existence, and will continue to be loved by all whose lives she will help from her new home in Heaven.
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Christina on 12 Apr 2009 at 9:42 am #
Hi! I don’t know you personally, but I got to this website from people who know you on twitter who have sent this website around. It’s such a beautiful idea
Maddie seemed like such a gorgeous smart little girl, I’m sure she was, I just wanted to say how sorry I am that this had to happen to you, no one deserves to lose their child, she will be in my thoughts.
Stay strong -xoxo-
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Joanna on 12 Apr 2009 at 10:05 am #
I am always amazed at the internet communities’ capacity to love one another.
You are all wonderful people for doing this.
All my love to the Sphor family in their time of grief.
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Lisa E on 12 Apr 2009 at 10:09 am #
**hugs** you are all in my prayers.
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JOpinionated on 12 Apr 2009 at 2:18 pm #
I’ve had the pleasure of meeting Heather, as she is best friends with my friend & co-worker Jackie. My heart truly goes out to the entire Spohr family. I am reaching out to my blog readers to make donations; it is the least I could do. Huge virtual hugs to all involved, from the Spohrs to Heather’s online parenting community to the strangers who are so deeply affected by Maddie’s passing. Please let me know if there is anything else I can do.
-Jo
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Laura on 12 Apr 2009 at 5:51 pm #
What you have done here is great. You are a wonderful friend. My heart aches for Heather and Mike.
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Jennifer on 12 Apr 2009 at 7:32 pm #
My heart goes out to you, Heather and Mike…please know that strangers far and wide are mourning the loss of beautiful Maddie. She was a gift to the world!
Sending hugs and prayers from San Francisco.
Jennifer
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ExtraordinaryMommy on 12 Apr 2009 at 9:33 pm #
Heather and Mike – I am heartbroken for you – I can’t begin to imagine what you are going through, but wish I could hug you! I will be praying for your family and wearing purple for Maddie on Tuesday.
Meghan – you are a wonderful friend! Thank you for the updates and for sharing the beauty of Maddie’s smile and soul with us!
Danielle
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Alyson on 13 Apr 2009 at 4:22 am #
You are truly wonderful – a great friend. Thank you for blessing this family.
Alyzabeth’s Mommy for Seven Months
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Geekbloggers on 13 Apr 2009 at 5:31 am #
The geeks have gone purple in support of Maddie, I’ve also added in a new button and twitter background so there are more ways to support Maddie.
Our hearts and prayers go out to Heather and Mike.
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Heather on 13 Apr 2009 at 6:29 am #
I never had the privilege of knowing Maddie but I am sure she was a beautiful happy child. I know that there is little one can say or do that makes this tragic time more tolerable. My heart goes out to Heather and Mike. I am so sorry for your loss. Know that the awful pain you are feeling will not last forever, and somehow moving forward and living will be painful in another way. Sending prayers and good wishes.
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marty on 13 Apr 2009 at 7:22 am #
Thank you for doing this, Meghan. My heart is truly broken for Heather and Mike.
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Chef's Widow on 13 Apr 2009 at 9:33 am #
Your tremendous support is inspiring Meghan. My heart & love goes out to Heather & Mike.
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Susan @ 2KoP on 13 Apr 2009 at 10:49 am #
To Maddie’s family,
I had preemie twins and Maddie’s story has touched me deeply. I wish you peace and the joy of telling her story over and over again.
Susan from
Chicago Moms Blog
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Christy on 13 Apr 2009 at 1:10 pm #
Sending hugs and love to Heather, Mike and the family. Maddie was an amazing, spirited, joyful little girl and I am honored to have been a part of her life. Love you.
-Christy
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F. on 13 Apr 2009 at 1:17 pm #
This email was forwarded to me, by my daughter. I do not know this family, but we are all still one. This news is very sad. May this sweet, beautiful & precious little girl be blessed with the Lord’s touch. God bless you. My prayers are with you.
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Stef Newman on 13 Apr 2009 at 2:20 pm #
Hi Meghan,
Thanks for doing this. I am in tremendous awe of the amount of blogging and support for Maddie. I know nothing can replace this obvious ray of sunshine, taken too soon and leaving a void in many lives. Prayers are with the family, xoxo
Stefani
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preTzel on 13 Apr 2009 at 2:28 pm #
Heather and Mike – I am truly sorry for your loss. May your memories of Maddie comfort you in the days ahead.
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Susan on 13 Apr 2009 at 4:16 pm #
I hope the savvy source post helps get the word out even more about Maddie and people will be moved to help out. Hope all goes well tomorrow and it will be a wonderful celebration of a life that was all too short but oh so sweet. God bless…
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Em on 13 Apr 2009 at 4:58 pm #
Meghan – it is thanks to you that I knew this beautiful family and little girl. What you have done is amazing. Thank you. Em
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Kay M. on 13 Apr 2009 at 5:33 pm #
The grief Heather and Mike must feel, its just so incomprehensible. My prayers are with them, and with you, Meghan, as their friend. I pray for peace in your lives. God bless you all.
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WahineBina on 13 Apr 2009 at 5:45 pm #
To Heather, Mike, and Meghan – Although I do not know you, and did not know of you or Maddie until today, I want to add my small words of sympathy for the loss of precious little Maddie. Thoughts and prayers to you and your extended family.
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LiteralDan on 13 Apr 2009 at 8:02 pm #
Mike and Heather, I can only hope that you get some feeling from all these links that you’re not alone in coping with this, because I know you may feel like it. Good luck tomorrow.
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Angie on 13 Apr 2009 at 8:48 pm #
My thoughts and prayers have been with you (and will continue to be) since Maddie’s passing. May you find peace in the love and support coming from all ends of the country.
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T@SendChocolate on 13 Apr 2009 at 10:15 pm #
It’s not enough, but I wrote a little something, with links for Paypal donations. It’s what I can do…and what I needed to do.
Please know I will attend the memorial tomorrow, possibly in silence, but to strenghthen numbers.
T.
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Stacey (XOXOSt) on 13 Apr 2009 at 10:48 pm #
I’ve written on here before, but felt compelled to say to the Sphor’s – I was introduced to you and your precious angel daughter Madeline by through ‘mrskutcher’ and your wonderful friend Meghan on Twitter. I have been so incredibly touched. Maddie’s name and spirit and soul LIVES ON for eternity through the love that has poured out for your precious little girl. She’s touched the lives of thousands and I just wanted to give you a cyber-hug and squeeze your hand and tell you (from personal experience) that as sad as we here on earth feel, little Maddie is gigglling and dancing and playing with precious little angels that are so thrilled and lucky to have her with them. May the love, hope, faith and prayer of so many help you through, and may God shine upon you every second of each and every day.
God Bless You & Your Family
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Hollie on 14 Apr 2009 at 4:08 am #
I’m not much of a bloger myself but I enjoy reading other peoples blogs. Friday I came across a blog about Maddie and my heart just broke in two. Ever since I have been drawn to this little angel and her family. My thoughts and prayers go out to Heather, Mike, and everyone who loves Maddie. I have posted Maddie’s picture, paypal buttons, and her website on my myspace page.
Meaghan you are a great friend for everything you are doing. God Bless you!
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Debba Haupert on 14 Apr 2009 at 6:19 am #
So incredibly sad. Thanks Meghan and others for being Heather’s girlfriends and supporting her and Mike through this heart-breaking loss of sweet Maddie.
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laurie on 14 Apr 2009 at 6:27 am #
I have written a post for her on BlogHer. Thinking of everyone involved.
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Wendy on 14 Apr 2009 at 7:48 am #
My blog has gone purple in honor of Maddie. Wishing peace for a difficult day.
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amyz5 on 14 Apr 2009 at 8:42 am #
I have been so touched by the outpouring of the online community. When there are no words, hopefully these gestures can give a shred of comfort.
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Chantel on 14 Apr 2009 at 10:32 am #
Ok, I’ve linked to Operation Purple Balloon. Meghan you are doing a wonderful amazing job supporting your friends. I know Maddie is smiling down on you. xoxo
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Terence Davis on 14 Apr 2009 at 11:01 am #
My condolences to your family. I wish you peace, health, and happiness for the future. I would like to help remember Maddie by offering our musicians for any planned events. I will donate studio time to you if it can help in any way.
All my best,
Terence Davis
Great Music Studio
Malibu, CA
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Maddie « PsychMamma on 14 Apr 2009 at 11:01 am #
[...] in her name, or, to help cover funeral expenses (both of her parents are currently out of work), go here. To read more about Maddie’s life from her mommy’s blog where we all got to know her, [...]
BananaBlueberry on 14 Apr 2009 at 11:03 am #
My heart and prayers are with you !!!!!!!!!!!!
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Kimberly D. on 14 Apr 2009 at 1:07 pm #
I don’t know the Spohr’s family, but my heart goes out to them. I am so very sorry for your loss.
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mommymae on 14 Apr 2009 at 1:29 pm #
thinking of l.a. now and sending my love across the miles.
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Sarah @ BecomingSarah.com on 14 Apr 2009 at 2:42 pm #
My heart is breaking, shattering for the Spohr family. I have no words, just prayers and best wishes and apologies that I found out too late when the service was.
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Michelle on 14 Apr 2009 at 3:13 pm #
You’re a good friend Meghan.
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Kim Enckhausen on 14 Apr 2009 at 3:21 pm #
God Bless. My company, Horseshoe Casino in Bossier City, Louisiana is taking donations of $5. for all of our employees to wear purple shirts on Wednesday. Horseshoe is owned by Harrah’s, which is an enormous company to be donating, so hopefully there will be HUGE amounts of money pouring in. I hope and pray the donations help in any way your family or other’s might need. May God Bless your beautiful daughter and your loving hearts.
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MiaDanJosNat on 14 Apr 2009 at 3:46 pm #
Our thoughts and prayers to all of you! God Bless you and Sweet Baby Angel Maddie! XOXOXO
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Elizabeth Crustybeef on 14 Apr 2009 at 6:36 pm #
My heart is breaking as a mom. I wish I had the words to help make it stop hurting and I wish I could bring her back to you.
Just from reading about her, she is an inspiration.
My thoughts and prayers to you Heather and Mike.
I’ve added the button and linked her at my site.
Sincerely,
Elizabeth
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Tina on 15 Apr 2009 at 4:29 am #
Meghan, you are a very special person to have done this for the family. My heart breaks as I read and watch this unfolding. Couldn’t imagine it. My prayers and thoughts are with the family, Maddie and you for stepping up and doing what your doing at such a sad time. God Bless.
Did a Wordless Wednesday post with your button–awesome job. Thank you.
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Dipaolamomma on 15 Apr 2009 at 4:59 am #
No thoughts, no words, no prayers are enough.. but I send them with my love in hopes that they may reach Maddy’s family and someday give them a small measure of comfort. A child this Angelic, sweet, happy and strong is a shining example of true love and hope. Thank you Mike and Heather for sharing your joy. Please lean on us in your pain.
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HeatherPride on 15 Apr 2009 at 6:14 am #
I hope Mike and Heather find some measure of comfort in knowing how many people loved and cared about their amazing baby girl. I will miss seeing her shining little face, and my heart goes out to everyone that knew her. A great loss. I’m so very sorry.
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Megan Lynae on 15 Apr 2009 at 9:44 am #
Mike and Heather,
Please know that we are all thinking of you and praying for you in this incredibly difficult time.
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Amanda on 15 Apr 2009 at 11:11 am #
Though I dont know you or your little girl I want to my love and prays with you in this time. I am the mother of a 15 month old little girl and I couldnt imagine losing her. God Bless you.
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Kellee on 15 Apr 2009 at 10:00 pm #
I forgot to leave my comment!
Honoring Maddie will be one of the most cherished and memorable days of my life. She will continue to be an inspiration forever. Heather and Mike, you are incredible. You shared so much joy with the rest of us. Thank you for sharing and letting us all be a part of Maddie’s life as well.
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Lynette on 16 Apr 2009 at 1:35 pm #
You all have honored Maddie’s memory with loving words, I, like many people are truly awed by your story.
The two of you have inspired me (not an easy thing to do), and I have signed up for the March of Dimes walk in honor of your beautiful girl.
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Alex Payne on 16 Apr 2009 at 4:36 pm #
What an amazing outpouring of support for such a tiny little girl. She has clearly touched so many people’s hearts, and will forever have a small piece of my heart.
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Ohmygoshi on 16 Apr 2009 at 6:21 pm #
I hesitated to write anything because I don’t know the family, but then I just wrote what was on my heart. She was such a beautiful little girl, and I am so devastated for your loss. Coincidentally, purple is one of my favorite colors, and now I’ll remember and honor sweet Maddie every time I see it. You guys are in my thoughts and prayers. Maddie was truly amazing.
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Sharon on 16 Apr 2009 at 8:31 pm #
Sending all my love, thoughts and prayers…We’ll miss you Maddie.
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Cindy on 16 Apr 2009 at 8:58 pm #
I never met Maddie, and yet I will never forget her. Her story has both broken my heart and restored my faith in mankind. I am amazed at how strangers from all over the world (myself included) have rallied around Heather and Mike to help support them and hold them up when they need it most. What an incredibly profound impact this sweet little girl has had on so many people – some people live their whole lives without touching this many hearts. What an incredible gift she has given us all, and how lucky we all are to have been touched by her.
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the RaMbLeR on 16 Apr 2009 at 9:22 pm #
I wish I had some wise words to say to take all the pain away for Mike and Heather. And God bless you Meghan for being their crutch in this time when it must seem impossible to stand alone. You are a beautiful soul!
I know Maddie (in her passing) has already performed so many miracles. Opening so many eyes to the importance of showing our love, to take the time to appreciate everything around us.
We ‘almost’ lost our youngest & spent time in the NICU when he was born. His story is at http://www.caringforcole.blogspot.com/ …and they rest of the family are included on the RaMbLeR blog.
My thoughts and prayers are and will remain with all of you. I pray that God heals your wounds quickly.
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WM on 17 Apr 2009 at 9:30 am #
I didn’t post this week in honor of Maddie. Thanks much for compiling these and being such an amazing friend to Heather and Mike.
You are all in my heart and prayers!
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Michael @badassdad05 on 17 Apr 2009 at 10:38 am #
Hey there. Linked a post I wrote which wasn’t exactly about Maddie, but was certainly inspired by her and all of you. Please to all.
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trinity on 17 Apr 2009 at 1:54 pm #
I learned of your precious Maddie from Matt Logelin’s blog.
There are truly no words to convey my sorrow for such a loss. The only thing I can say is prayers are being sent your way in the name of your baby girl.
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Kelly B on 18 Apr 2009 at 7:19 am #
I did not find Maddie, Heather, & Mike until Maddie left this world. I have cried and prayed for them every day since. I am also touched by the outpouring of love from bloggerworld. It gives me hope for humanity, really. May God bless each person who has given to the Spohrs, and may He continue to wrap His arms around Mike & Heather in comfort and love.
xo
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Angela Elswood on 18 Apr 2009 at 8:20 pm #
I don’t know where to begin. I’m not a writer, I’m not a blogger, but I was floored when I logged on and read that Maddie had passed away. I followed Heather only for a brief period. I love to read and look at pictures. My daughter Lily was born at 31 weeks. And although scary, I pulled through. I had no one who understood what it meant to have a preemie As long as everything was ok, they where ok. It was scary when I was given instruction on what to do if she stopped breathing when I took her home. I was alone. I was fortunate that every thing turned out ok. So I searched the web to find other families going through the same thing. That’s when I came across Heather and Mike and their struggles. I could finally see that I was not alone.
But then, the tragic news. I was floored. I felt like I had been punched in the stomach. When I heard that Maddie had passed I felt empty. I cried, I felt numb. I searched the web for all the stories about Maddie. I read the wonderful words that Heather and Mike wrote for Maddie. But yet, I still felt like the rug had been pulled out from underneath me. She should still be here. It’s not fair. Then the guilt set in. How could I look at my beautiful little girl, yet Maddie is gone.
About a week after Maddie had passed, I finally came to realize, after all the tears, after all the hurt, Maddie has changed how I looked at life. I never would even imagine that such a tragic event would have such an impact on me. So, this is for Maddie, sweet dear little Maddie, who was taken too soon.
Maddie, I would like to thank you for changing my whole perspective on life. I watched you grow into a sweet, wonderful angel. I would compare you and your acheivements to my own little girl. You had such a wonderful personality. Your smile was infectious. I could tell you were going to be a brilliant scholar one day. But after your passing I didn’t know what to say. But as time passed, and all the hurt I felt, life as I knew it was a whole new ballgame.
I no longer get angry at the little things in life (and sometimes the big things). I no longer get angry at work, all the deadlines mean nothing to me now. I no longer get impatient with people who drive slow or cut me off. It is all so irrelavent now. Now I think only of how precious and fragile life is. Instead or worrying about work, I think of my sweet Lily. When I get home I give her extra kisses. I tell her over and over how much I love her. This weekend, instead of hanging out with friends I took her down to the beach. She had never been to the beach before. And for 30 minutes she sat in my lap, calm like I never seen her before, taking it all in. The waves, the cute baby seals sunning themselves on the beach, the seagulls flying about, the smell of the sea. These are the things that are important to me now.
You will always be in my thoughts. I look at your pictures everyday, missing you. But you have made me a better person and for that I thank you.
I am not a religious person, but if there is a heaven, it has been blessed with the most wonderful little girl ever.
All my love,
Angela
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Dana Zap on 19 Apr 2009 at 8:20 pm #
Heather & Mike,
Words cannot even explain how sorry I am to hear about Maddie…She had a smile and a sparkle that I will never forget…I will never be able to look at the color purple without thinking of “your Maddie”…I will never be able to hear the name Maddie without thinking of “your Maddie” and when I see a sunset, I will think of those incredible eyes of hers. We will never forget Maddie…she will live on in all of us…
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Bec Duncan on 20 Apr 2009 at 3:35 am #
Heather’s tribute to Madeline was the most beautiful thing I have ever read. I wish for strength for their family.
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Karen Cioffi-Ventrice on 20 Apr 2009 at 7:24 am #
As stated in an earlier post, there are no words, but I do send my thoughts and prayers to Maddy’s family.
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Sabrina on 20 Apr 2009 at 10:26 am #
It is so wonderful the things you are doing for the Sphors! My heart hurts everytime I think about sweet Maddie and their lost! No mother or father should feel that kind of pain.
Thank you for helping such a sweet family~ I hope we all can do a little something for Maddie and her family~
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Inna on 20 Apr 2009 at 5:41 pm #
I linked to my post about a hat and blanket delivery for the NYP Hospital NICU in honor of Maddie.
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Nyree on 21 Apr 2009 at 8:31 am #
I feel so blessed to have gotten to know Maddie through Mike and Heather’s words and pictures – she has a beautiful spirit that just shines through. I hope that Heather and Mike can find comfort in memories and know that their little girl is watching over them every single day. She was truly blessed to have such wonderful parents as they were to have such a beautiful daughter. My heart breaks for their loss. I saw this quote and thought of them:
A wife who loses a husband is called a widow. A husband who loses a wife is called a widower. A child who loses his parents is called an orphan. There is no word for a parent who loses a child. That’s how awful the loss is.-Ronald Reagan
Please know that there are so many of us out here that keep you all close to our hearts. (((HUGS)))
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Duchess on 21 Apr 2009 at 11:06 pm #
Maddie is such a beautiful person. Heather and Mike should be very proud of the amazing creature, I feel so blessed that they allowed us in to know Maddie too. I wish there was more I could do to help. The Spohr family is in our thoughts, daily and we promise to remember, forever.
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Trauma Diva on 24 Apr 2009 at 1:25 pm #
As the mother of a child with a terminal illness, I can only imagine the pain you are going through. Thank you for making Maddie and your personal loss and tragedy a message and beacon for the world.
If we were only so lucky with Duchenne’s Muscular Dystrophy. Maddie is a godsend. You can see it in her angel eyes.
God bless all who care. God bless all who try to make a difference.
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Audrey on 24 Apr 2009 at 2:27 pm #
Words cannot express how deeply sorry I am that you have lost your beautiful angel. You’re in my thoughts and prayers. God bless you both.
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Janice (5 Minutes for Mom) on 25 Apr 2009 at 6:21 am #
not even an hour has gone by in the past two and a half weeks that I haven’t thought of Maddie. I linked up a couple of my posts and Susan has one of her Maddie posts too. I just posted another Maddie post this morning on Marching Day, maybe I will add that one too…
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Katie on 28 Apr 2009 at 6:42 am #
Maddie IS a beautiful little angel – I’m sure she is with you always. Many prayers for you in this difficult time.
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Molly on 04 May 2009 at 12:05 pm #
Dear Heather and Mike,
Your Maddie has touched our lives more than you know. I wish you peace in the coming weeks and months as you navigate your grief. Please know we are with you.
Molly
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Amy deClouet on 05 May 2009 at 8:06 am #
http://amydeclouet.blogspot.com/2009/05/march-for-maddie.html
My heart aches for the Spohr family. I am so so sorry for their loss and keep them in my prayers daily. Much love to all of you,
Amy
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AMomTwoBoys » Purple on 23 Jun 2009 at 3:50 pm #
[...] And I will always be purple. For Maddie. [...]
Cancun Vacations on 17 Jul 2009 at 6:53 am #
We send all our love to the family of Maddie – from all your friends south of the border.
Saludos Cordiales
Mateo
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stacey on 27 Feb 2010 at 4:48 pm #
I fell in love with Maddie after she was gone. I have read every post and viewed every picture. I will never forget this amazing child. I am so sorry she is not here.
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